I created a fellowship for me and my bf since we both have Meeroos and both the totem and the food bowl are now under the fellowship's name and when we click on all the roos they all have our fellowship name in their info. however, my bf's roos can't eat from the food bowl that I bought and they don't have their names in the totem that I bought. when I saw that his roos are starving and without a home I bought another totem so he could use with his roos and it worked... they go to his totem and mine goes to my totem. my question is... is there a way to use only one totem for both our roos and one bowl of food since we are both in the fellowship ? and also... I have a female roo that is aggressive like his but she has my totem, how can I make they share a totem?