06/16/11
Just wanted to share some thoughts here while im drinking my coffee this morning.
This is a forum provided by Malevay Studios.
They give this area here to ALL of us, a medium where ideas and views on any particular issues can be exchanged.
We are ALL different, and have different views and ways of expressing ourselves. Big statement there.
We ALL need this as a way of communication as well as the local group chat in world. Yes some names we all know from past breeding experiences and some not. Remember this quote:
You never get a second chance to make a first impression.
People do read these forums and do not comment. Why? time, bother, or not really wanting to take a share of the conversations going on here. Some people do post here, some very lengthy (winks at my friend Tari)and educating, some short, with just simple questions, and most of US ALL want to help.
We ALL carry our personalities in our words, and how it is written. Remember the saying Do unto others as you would have done unto you. In other words, be nice! It takes less to be more, and when there is trolling, flamming, bashing etc, there cant be anything logical, nothing to meet in the middle, and one throws their reputation out the window on doing this. Is yours or mine or ANYONE else's worth this?
If you arent sure on something, and want to create a thread on it, put it in a light that everyone can see, its a request for knowledge, for conversation, and not for baiting. Anyone can bait and flame, but take it one extra step, to walk a mile in someone's shoes before you decide to do so, and consider the consequences.
Am i preaching? NO. I'm writing this as i am truly fed up with the tactics of a minority of people, and i do not want to be led down the road to ruin over petty anti crap.
I put hours in here as i choose to do other things in world. I am not staff, i do not wish to be staff. WE all have rights here and I do not want to discourage anyone from sharing info. Just know the fine line and think before you post.
Make people want to pay attention, if you want to do well both here and or in world. Reputations can be made or broken with just a sentence.
mmm ok so now im doing a coffee break and on to other things. be kind to each other while im gone ;)